1. Don’t put out just because a guy has containers.

2. If someone says they are a bad person, listen to them.


3. The trick is to stay on the spraying so they do not get into your space.


4. You really do need to find people who want to work and who can work at your level.

5.Realize your own strength.



6. His behavior is totally inappropriate and weird.


7. Don’t be evil but don’t be too nice.


8. Remember things.


9. Maybe you are at that place, that exact place you need to be.


10. You want my job? All you have to do is keep writing and get an MFA at some point. But don’t rush.


11. Artsy charm and talent go a looong way on a girl.  But then I realize that the guy is prob an a-hole, nuts or just plain
gay.


12. Bankers and lawyers have issues too.


13. Just be honest with yourself - you are a good person and you should trust
yourself.


14.  Every group  is dysfunctional on some level.


15. Never get married unless you felt like you couldn’t do anything else BUT get married. That was the way it worked for me, Leah. It was so obvious to me. It was as necessary a next step as breathing or eating. Which is not to say that marriage is easy. No, it isn’t.


16. Sign up for the New York Foundation for the Arts newsletter.


17. They are more interested in the pursuit, and become disinterested once they catch something.